I was told this past month that I am not ambitious or efficient enough. That I just exist and do not strive for more. The words, though uttered in frustration, gave me food for thought.
For context, I have recently gone from the full-time working-in-corporate life, to a SAHM life. It has been a forced shift, and the transition has been less than smooth for me.
And while I disagree that I merely exist, is ok in today’s time to not have major goals? I am not sure if this is fair on a domestic partner or a family to not have career aspirations – the implications are multiple:
- The partner is forced (even though they do not mind) to hold down a high paying job so the home expenses are managed.
- You are worried about overspending and feel a definite lack of spending power.
- You are worried you are setting the wrong precedent for the little boys you are raising
- While you want to, you are on most days, unable to budget time for personal exploits.
I am going to be more intentional about how I spend time – and hopefully the little one will start sleeping nights by his own volition soon.
Tomorrow’s post – a mother’s perspective on sleep training. Riveting stuff, I tell you!